Am ales aceasta tema pentru faptul ca admir modul lor de a se comporta in astfel de situatii. Ciudat nu? Dar ei sunt intr-adevar un exemplu bun de urmat si asta pentru ca nu arata ingrozitor in oglinda. In cazul unor mici conflicte, barbatul nu se exteriorizeaza, asa cum facem noi toate(99%).
De ce alegem noi intotdeauna drumul cel mai complicat? Ma intreb daca ne putem reprograma? pentru ca studiile au demonstrat ca avem softuri diferite. Mereu cerem explicatii si asta in timp ce inundam camera in care ne aflam. Barbatul se calmeaza repede, datorita faptului ca se orienteaza spre lucruri care ii atrag atentia, precum un leptop sau de ce nu un televizor. Dar acest lucru are o explicatie foarte interesanta: femeile folosesc mai mult emisfera stanga iar barbatii pe cea dreapta.
Datorita acestui fapt barbatii reactioneaze prin miscare in loc sa continuie verbal, femeile in schimb rectioneaza prin comunicare. Cand suntem nervoase vedem numai lucrurile negative, si credem ca nu exista nici o rezolvare, provocam verbal, dar asta pentru ca ne lasam purtate de val. Simtim nevoia sa impartasim tot ce gandim ca sa ne linistim, dupa care pace.
Barbatul in schimb constient de ceea ce se poate intampla in urma provocarilor verbale facute de femeie, alege plecarea. Se deconecteaza de tot ce il enerva pentru a se putea calma.
La sfarsit in schimb totul se rezolva cu un sarut si un somn linistit, cel putin asa sper.
Men do- Women talk
I chose this theme because I admire the way they behave in such situations. Weird huh? But they are indeed a good example for us and they don't look so terrible in the mirror. In the case of smaller conflicts, the man did not outwardly, as we do all (99%).
Why do we always choose the most complicated way? I wonder if we can reschedule? because studies have shown that we have different software. We always ask for explanations... The man calms down quickly, because he is focused on things that attract attention, such as a leptop or why not a TV. But this is a very interesting explanation: a women use more left hemisphere and a men the right.
Because of this, men react by moving in place to continue to speak like a women. When we are nervous we see only negative things, and we believe that there is no resolution,we challenge, we talk a lot. We feel the need to share everything we thought to calm down.
Instead man aware of what can happen after the woman made verbal challenges, and choose to leave to calm his angry.
In the end everything is solved instead of a kiss and a quiet sleep, at least I hope so.
We are so different but if we know that we must think more next time!
I hope I translated good!!
Why do we always choose the most complicated way? I wonder if we can reschedule? because studies have shown that we have different software. We always ask for explanations... The man calms down quickly, because he is focused on things that attract attention, such as a leptop or why not a TV. But this is a very interesting explanation: a women use more left hemisphere and a men the right.
Because of this, men react by moving in place to continue to speak like a women. When we are nervous we see only negative things, and we believe that there is no resolution,we challenge, we talk a lot. We feel the need to share everything we thought to calm down.
Instead man aware of what can happen after the woman made verbal challenges, and choose to leave to calm his angry.
In the end everything is solved instead of a kiss and a quiet sleep, at least I hope so.
We are so different but if we know that we must think more next time!
I hope I translated good!!
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